At a second glance everything looks different
Ich habe ja ein bisschen länger leben dürfen als es vor 2 Jahren aussah. This fact gives me the chance to look at things again, with an other distance, another perspective and I can then see much more. and it´s not just one more but many different perspectives. To do that I need time to think, conciously and unconsciously. One of the. blessings at my age is that you wake up in the morning at say 4 or 5 oˋclock and you canˋt continue to sleep as you did in the olden days. When you were young! (Surprisingly I was young in the olden days!) So it´s time to reflect. I learn to see my children in a new way. When they also succeed in looking at me in a different way things begin to change. We can see each other without the weight of the past. This has made me blind. We need to brake out of the chains of the simple relation and observation as father and son or father and daughter. Looking at one another as independent individuals and telling each other stories as the ...